Siblings
Since Melayna is just a month old, I thought, I'd reminisce and see what Tristan looked like at one month. I took his picture every month for the first year in the same chair. So, I'll do the same for Melayna, but I'll be taking her picture with a teddy bear.
Anyway, when I compared the pictures, I was amazed by the similarities, as well as the differences. Check it out:
I am glad that Melayna isn't going bald. Tristan was born with hair, but it had diminished to almost nothing for his whole first year. Sorry that Tristan's picture isn't so clear. I had a crummy camera then (not that mine now is any better) and he was jaundiced past his first month so his complexion is still very yellow. I still have that Broncos outfit. Maybe I should get a picture of Melayna in it...oh, and I can use the same chair! Hmmm, I'll see if I can manage it sometime in the next few days. Despite Melayna appearing bigger, Tristan was much bigger than her at a month. He weighed over 10 lbs at 3 weeks, while she only weighed 8 lb 14oz at 3 weeks.
Since nursing isn't going according to plan, we've had to switch to bottle. Although, I'm still trying my best to nurse, I think it really isn't going to work out. But one of the benefits of feeding her a bottle, is that big brother can be a bit more helpful and feel more involved. I almost regret showing him how to feed her the bottle (he's not that good at it quite yet, which leads to a very frustrated baby). So, anyway, here's a picture of Tristan feeding Melayna.
And here's a collage of pictures of Melayna holding up her head. She's getting to be so much better at it - each day she holds it up just a little bit longer.
Well, it's late and I'm tired.
4 comments:
Love the picture of big brother feeding! how are you holding up with two?
They do look a lot alike at that age. Love the pic of big brother feeding. I wish I could have Hannah help, but I don't think it would be a pretty sight :)
Andrea - We're holding up, barely. I didn't realize how tough things would be with two kiddos. I wish I could do more with Tristan, but I get so tied up with Melayna. I'm running out of time before I have to head back to work and with the holidays approaching, time will be even shorter. :( Any advice, tips, etc is much appreciated! ;)
Paula - yeah, Hannah is still a bit young to help out, but since they are so close in age, they'll likely be closer buddies than my two.
She is so precious - I can't believe she is holding her head up that good!
p.s. about handling life with 2 & feeling mommy-guilt - there is NO GLORY in self condemnation!! You are a MOM, you are doing a GREAT job - there is NO reason to feel condemnation!! Go into this season with a smile on your face!!
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